"Some people, pass through our lives for a season to teach us lessons that could never be learned if they stayed."
We have all faced a situation where we lost or we let go of something or someone who was somehow important to us. Speaking from experience what I truly didn’t realize at that time was that the most destructive loss was the fact that I lost myself, my voice, my feelings and my worth by taking their feelings into account and completely forgetting about my own.
By doing that I truly didn’t hurt or destroy anyone the only person I destroyed was me because I put up with what bothered me. That’s because disappointments always occur from the people who you somehow tried to do the impossible to please, in other words you’ll go above and beyond to please them and it will simply mean absolutely nothing to them.
Life taught me that there are two types of people who you should never rekindle or stay with. Those people who don’t understand you and never even tried to and the people who always under value you in other words the ones that don’t realize the blessings of your true worth. Life also taught me that, a lot of people tend to walk away from pain and not hatred, they walk away out of pure hurtful disappointments.
Therefore, trust me stick to the people who love you for no particular reason, the people who see nothing but the purity in you, the ones that don’t care about your past, the ones that don’t care about who you are and what you do and what you look like, they simply love you for you. I’m an easy-going person but the one thing that I will never tolerate is fake-ness. You have the right to hate me if you want to, I respect your opinion but you truly don’t have the right to act like you care when you simply don’t.
The moral of what I’m trying to say is that set yourself free from the prison of your past and the prison of your past experiences. Allow yourself to explore and live new adventures, allow your beautiful self the opportunity to live life the way it wants to.
That’s because I was once a girl who lived life based on people’s opinions and expectations I was a people’s pleaser now I’m my own person and I’m not afraid of saying this is who I am and who I want to be if you want to be in my life you have to accept me the way that I am.
“Sometimes the wrong person teaches us the right lessons in life."
“ life is like an elevator: on your way up, sometimes, you have to stop and let some people off.”
“Anger, resentment and jealousy doesn't change the heart of others– it only changes yours.”
“I will not be "famous," "great." I will go on adventuring, changing, opening my mind and my eyes, refusing to be stamped and stereotyped. The thing is to free one's self: to let it find its dimensions, not be impeded.”