Toxic relationships will eat you alive. Sometimes, people refuse to see the bad in something or someone until it completely destroys them. Whether it’s a relationship or a friendship or anything that simply makes you feel unworthy, horrible and simply not good enough why do you still hesitate and hold on to that?
People often look for happiness in the same place they lost it, which will lead to another hurtful, unwanted disappointment. Don’t get me wrong some people are worth fighting for and some relationships or friendships are worth rekindling.
However, if you already reached the moon and your friend or partner or whoever it is that’s making you feel miserable is stuck on earth then it’s no longer in your hands to change.
It’s time to move on, you can’t start a new chapter in your life if you keep holding on to the past and you keep trying to develop and relive the old one. Let me put it to you this way if you believe in the process of fairness then wake up babe and be fair to yourself first. Holding on to toxicity and trying to justify yourself is poisonous and unfair.
Let me put it to you this way,
If they lack empathy, walk away there’s no point in even trying.
If your always criticized by that one particular person sweetheart you’re not the issue. Did you ever consider that this particular person is trying to bring you down in every possible way because of their own misery? If that’s the case you can’t sell your own happiness to others my darling you have to walk away.
Ask yourself if it was always their way or no way? Then it will always be one sided no matter how hard you try, you might give them your world and they will always look for more no matter what. Then that’s a sign that it’s time for you to walk away.
If they always point out the bad in everything no matter what and their negativity overflows the room then buddy it’s time for you to walk away.
If you walked away from bullies, abusive partners or toxic friendships then sweetheart you won. You’re allowed to walk away or terminate such things that’s because your worth so much more.
You’re allowed to walk away from pain because you deserve happiness. You’re allowed to walk away from selfish, angry and unforgiving people. That’s because you deserve love, happiness, inspiration and a beautiful healthy life.
Sweetheart, simply surround yourself with the people who love you, motivate you, encourage you to do more, and most importantly make you happy. If a person does none of these things then please just walk away.